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Ex-etiquette: E-biking son needs to wear his helmet
Q. My 14-year-old son saved his money and bought an e-bike at his mother’s home. The stipulation was that he always wears a helmet when riding it. Two of my friends called me recently and told me that my son has been spotted riding around the neighborhood without a helmet. They sent me pictures. His mother isn’t doing anything about it. What...Read more
Lori Borgman: Raising a brow at beauty app scores
Pity the evil queen in "Snow White" asking the magic mirror who was the fairest of all, waiting anxiously for the reply. Today, all the queen would need to do is upload an image of herself to an AI beauty analysis app and wait 10 seconds for the results.
Beauty analysis apps score your face “plain, pretty or gorgeous,” or “attractive, ...Read more
Bite-size shifter fantasy you can sink your teeth in
Looking for a quick fantasy read that hits the spot? Lisa Lacriola serves up just what you need in the second installment of her Species Chronicles, "The Order of the Wolf: Covenant."
The story follows Toni Luello after the events of the first book, "The Order of the Wolf: Lineage," where the disappearance of her great-aunt leads Toni to ...Read more
History, mystery and faith collide against stunning Italian vistas in debut thriller
Debut novel "The Amalfi Secret" by Dean and Catherine Reineking takes readers on a pulse-pounding chase through sun-drenched Italian locales and shadowy halls of power.
This mystery thriller opens on the picturesque Amalfi Coast, where Gabe Roslo meets up with his grandparents for a family vacation. It’s a heartfelt reunion after a year or so...Read more
Grandparents Seek Advice On Raising Grandkids
Q: Long (sad) story short: My husband and I have recently been granted long-term custody of our two young grandkids. Do you have any advice for us as an older couple having to become "parents again"?
Jim: First, I applaud and thank you for having the courage to assume the responsibility of giving your grandchildren a stable, loving, family-...Read more
Three Strange Paths to Not Thinking About You-Know-Who
Are you, like me, kind of freaking out a little bit?
Do masked men patrol your city streets, snatching people up and throwing them into vans headed for overcrowded detention centers where they will be held incommunicado and pressured to sign self-deportation orders that abrogate their rights to a fair trial?
Have your lawmakers all seemingly...Read more
Aisha Sultan: Your teen's AI chatbot buddy can be very dangerous
When social media first began attracting young people more than two decades ago, parents worried about whether their children were chatting with nefarious strangers.
Now, with the emergence of AI chatbots, parents should worry if their children are being seduced by equally dangerous computer programs.
The use of AI chatbots as “friends” is...Read more
How We Got to Helicopter Parenting
A friend just asked me how we got to this point -- a point that she is miserably in the middle of, beside herself with guilt for missing an afternoon pickup of her kid at school (someone else pitched in!), or for having to cut bath time short to take a work call.
The pressure to be perfect and ever-present, and somehow control every aspect of...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
SPRINGSTEEN: DELIVER ME FROM NOWHERE
Rated PG-13 for thematic material, some sexuality, strong language and smoking.
What it’s about: A focused look at the writing of Bruce Springsteen's iconic 1982 album, "Nebraska."
The kid attractor factor: This is an adult drama that deals with mature themes, not really much appeal for kids.
Good ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Worn down by ex
Q. I have no idea how to co-parent when my ex is such a jerk and is always telling me how I screwed up: I can’t parent the kids right. I don’t cook nutritious food. I drink too much.
I’m so beaten down I don’t want to talk to them about anything, let alone consult them about our kids. What’s good ex-etiquette?
A. My first thought ...Read more
Lori Borgman: This way to the road less traveled
We accidentally left for our vacation in Maine a day early. I take full credit — or blame — it depends on who tells the story. There’s nothing wrong with leaving a day early, except that when you get there you won’t have a place to stay.
A quick online search landed us a reservation just outside a picturesque New England town we’d ...Read more
Get ready for a tarot map of trauma, power and reclaimed lineage
Every anthology has to choose its organizing principle, but few feel as alive as the one guiding "Coven of the East: Reimagining Asian Women’s Magical Histories." Editors Angela Yuriko Smith and Pauline Chow map the 22 entries against the 22 Major Arcana of the Rider–Waite–Smith tarot. It’s a clever structure, intuitive, almost organic, ...Read more
Small town holiday romance with an enchanting twist
In "A Spell for Midwinter’s Heart," author Morgan Lockhart whisks the reader away into a small mountain town filled with magic. This book hits all the marks I want from a romance for the holiday season: cozy, fantastical, and filled with eclectic characters and local business owners rising up against the industrial complex.
Our protagonist, ...Read more
5 books featuring dark woods where dark things happen
There are countless reasons why the woods make for a great setting in novels.
In the woods, it’s easy for us to get lost, easy to think we’re progressing towards a destination only to find ourselves back where we started, easy to disappear. In the woods, technology is unreliable, and often we find it best to leave our phones behind. Our ...Read more
What To Do When The Creative Well Runs Dry
Q: I have to be creative in my job, but some days I'm just too worn out or uninspired. That stresses me and only makes things worse. Do you have any "hacks" for generating good ideas under pressure?
Jim: I think we've all had moments in life where we need help to get the creative juices flowing. Each of us is different; what works for one ...Read more
Which Kind of Country Will We Be?
My two boys recently got new passports. The little books are gorgeously designed.
On thick paper, drawings are etched of wheat fields and farmers, statues and monuments. Quotes from great Americans - former Presidents George Washington, Theodore Roosevelt and John F. Kennedy, as well as the Rev. Martin Luther King, Jr., -- top each page. The ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'BLACK PHONE 2'
Rated R for strong violent content, gore, teen drug use, and language.
What it’s about: Siblings in 1982 Denver have to fend off the kiddie serial killer the Grabber who haunts them in their dreams.
The kid attractor factor: This is a fairly violent horror movie — not really for kids.
Good lessons/bad lessons: Families ...Read more
Commentary: The new talk -- The need to discuss AI with kids
“(I)t is a massively more powerful and scary thing than I knew about.” That’s how Adam Raine’s dad characterized ChatGPT when he reviewed his son’s conversations with the AI tool. Adam tragically died by suicide. His parents are now suing OpenAI and Sam Altman, the company’s CEO, based on allegations that the tool contributed to his ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: A trick or a treat?
Q. I am the proud mom of two very active boys and a 3-year-old little girl. They all tell me they want to trick-or-treat with their father and me, but we have been separated for almost two years now. We live close by, and I’m willing to try, but I have to admit, just thinking about it gives me anxiety. It sounds like a great idea, but a lot to...Read more
Lori Borgman: No time like the present or past or future, whatever
Because I love, love, love saving time, I am looking forward to the first weekend in November when the entire nation will save 60 minutes — not the Sunday night news program but an hour on the clock.
Of course, nobody likes to mention the fact that the only reason we are “saving” an hour is because an hour was stolen from us in the spring...Read more
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- Family guide to new movie releases
- Commentary: The new talk -- The need to discuss AI with kids
- Aisha Sultan: Your teen's AI chatbot buddy can be very dangerous
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- What's up with boys? A discussion with Jim Steyer of Common Sense Media




























