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When To Remarry After Divorce
Q: Recently I've gone through a divorce that I didn't want. My ex has already moved on and there's no going back, so I'm starting to look forward myself. How soon is too soon to get married again after divorce?
Jim: There's no one-size-fits-all answer to "how soon is too soon." But since this is a question that our counselors at Focus on the ...Read more
The 'Easy Way Out' May Not Be So Easy After all
I've been hearing a lot lately about how it's "taking the easy way out" to use GLP-1s to lose weight.
That may be true. But then again, you might be able to say the same thing about virtually every medical advancement. When you boil it down, chemotherapy is "taking the easy way out" of testicular cancer. Penicillin is "taking the easy way out...Read more
Republicans cut off Medicaid funding for Planned Parenthood. Philadelphia-area clinics are scrambling to maintain services
PHILADELPHIA — Planned Parenthood clinics in the Philadelphia area expect to lose $3.1 million in Medicaid revenue this year due to funding cuts under President Donald Trump’s signature spending plan.
The deficit puts thousands of low-income people who rely on Planned Parenthood Southeastern Pennsylvania’s clinics at risk of losing access...Read more
Pack It In, Parents
Got a mule handy? Great! Because I've been flipping through old parenting magazines I should throw out already, looking for valuable advice.
Instead, here's what I found: a list of items one article suggests you take along if you're traveling to, say, your brother-in-law's house for a long weekend with your baby:
--A portable crib
--A baby ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'REMINDERS OF HIM'
Rated PG-13 for sexual content, strong language, drug content, some violent content, and brief partial nudity.
What it’s about: A young woman, fresh out of prison, tries to start a new life with the hopes of meeting her young daughter.
The kid attractor factor: This is an adult romantic melodrama, not much appeal for kids...Read more
Laura Yuen: Moving my dad into memory care broke me
For many months, I puzzled over why I couldn’t cry over my dad’s dementia. I even googled “why can’t I cry” to diagnose my condition, my inability to grieve the disappearance of his logic and memory.
My mom says when a loved one dies of a heart attack or in a car crash, the trauma is compacted. But our family’s grief was spread over...Read more
Ex-etiquette: 'You don't care'
Q. My ex often says, "You never cared about me, and now you don't care about our daughter." We're divorced, but this comes up repeatedly. When she says it, I find myself defending how much I care — about her, about our child — and the truth is, I don't care about my ex anymore. That sounds harsh, but I have very clear boundaries. I do care ...Read more
Lori Borgman: The reason it's called HARDware
I can catch a plane, a ball, a cold and the flu, but the one thing I can’t catch is home improvement skills.
I recently painted a small bathroom cabinet. The project took three days, not including 11 trips to the big box hardware store.
Meanwhile, on six different cable channels, people with home improvement skills ripped out small half-...Read more
M.L. Stedman’s 'A Far-Flung Life' is a sweeping saga of grief and enduran
What happens when your life falls apart? Not just once, but over and over again? When you’re constantly reminded of your mistakes? When there is no true way to atone for these mistakes?
In her first novel in over a decade, M.L. Stedman seeks to answer these questions in the epic family saga, "A Far-Flung Life."
The book centers on the ...Read more
A beautifully doomed love story in 'The Girl from Melodia'
"The Girl from Melodia" by Jonathan Toussaint is a literary tragedy set in the early 1990s France and England against the backdrop of the folk music scene, taking the reader from the gritty realism of the Tulle Folk Festival to a claustrophobic houseboat on the River Lea. Unreliable narrator Martyn Lockhart, son of the infamous folk singer John ...Read more
Ashley Winstead’s 'The Future Saints' hits an emotional high note
"The Future Saints" by Ashley Winstead is an ambitious novel, expansive in its concerns: sisterhood and family, the highs and lows of the music industry and the long-term consequences of mental illness and addiction. The novel is at its strongest in its close attention to daily interactions—among the band members themselves and with the record...Read more
Busy Mother Wants To Spend More Time With Kids
Q: I'm a married mom, maintaining a household while working full-time. With everything required in each of those roles, how can I find quality time to spend with my children? It seems like there aren't enough hours in the day.
Jim: You might start by honestly asking yourself a few simple questions. Are you working to provide for basic needs, or...Read more
Feeling Bad About a Dumb Injury? These Dudes Did It Worse
I hurt my knee taking a step onto a riser in a performance at my kids' elementary school the other day.
I'm not sure yet how serious the injury is, but it's the kind of incident that makes you feel about 100 years old and like a complete moron. I mean, who gets hurt taking the stairs?
So, after it happened, I decided to make myself feel ...Read more
It's Not Just You
It is hard to stay sane in this crazy world! Luckily, many of the conditions plaguing Americans today are mild and temporary. Including:
Hairanoia: The suspicion that everybody is just saying they love your new haircut.
Kinsomnia: The inability to fall asleep once one starts thinking about one's family.
Rexhibitionism: Childhood ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'HOPPERS'
Rated PG for action/peril, some scary images and mild language.
What it’s about: An animated action-comedy about an eco-activist who goes undercover as a beaver to save her favorite nature spot.
The kid attractor factor: The animated style, cute characters and humor will be a draw for kids and families.
Good lessons/bad lessons: ...Read more
Lori Borgman: A blanket statement we can cover
It happened at our oldest daughter’s place. I rang the bell, peeked in the side window and saw an ill-defined, furry mass lumbering toward the door.
My mind flashed back to my days in the Pacific Northwest when Bigfoot sightings were common. Was it a Bigfoot sighting? Here and now, in a sprawling suburb?
As the creature drew closer, I could ...Read more
Moms: Safe harbors: 6 books that explore second chances
These six novels delve into the complexities of the human heart, exploring love, loss and the transformative power of redemption.
From haunting journeys of trauma and healing to moral dilemmas, unforgettable friendships and the weight of memory, each story invites readers into richly drawn worlds where courage, faith and the struggle to ...Read more
Behind the perfect porches, something deadly lurks in 'All the Little Houses'
This is the first May Cobb book I’ve read, but it sure won’t be the last – I’m hooked!
Cobb has received tremendous acclaim for her deliciously twisty best-selling domestic thrillers in the past such as "The Hunting Wives" which also went on to be a hit TV series on Netflix.
And she really hits it out of the park once again with her ...Read more
Reader Worries About Depression's Effect On Family
Q: Over the past couple of years I've been battling severe anxiety and depression. These feelings are bad enough, but I'm concerned that I'm making life difficult for my wife and kids. What should I do?
Jim: I'd say that your concern is actually a hopeful sign. Some people who suffer from depression withdraw so deeply into themselves that they'...Read more
Kids Aren't Picky -- We're Just Bad Parents
It's not my fault that my kids are picky eaters, I learned today. But it's my fault if I don't fix it.
That's what I gleaned from a recent article by Helen Zoe Veit, the author of a forthcoming book called "Picky: How American Children Became the Fussiest Eaters in History."
Children are not naturally picky, Veit tells us in her piece. Not ...Read more



























