Is wanting to spend my life well and do worthy things for others – not to achieve things for myself a lazy approach to life?

on Aug 2, 2025

From the writings of the Rev. Billy Graham

Q: A lot of emphasis is put on ambition and achievement. Is this really what should motivate people? I can’t say I have ambition to be great, but I want to spend my life well and do worthy things for others – not to achieve things for myself. Some of my friends say that is a lazy approach to life. Is this true? – A.A.

A: Society’s idea of success and God’s are not the same. The psalmist’s pen presents a view of life that is the exact opposite of what the world around us promotes. “Live for yourself,” the world proclaims. “Have a good time; indulge your senses; pursue every pleasure; strive for success.” “And if you do,” these voices add, “then you’ll be happy and blessed.”

But God calls us to another way – His way. The Bible says, “Blessed are those who keep [the Lord’s] testimonies, who seek Him with the whole heart!” (Psalm 119:2, NKJV). Blessing, He says, comes only from following Him. Every other way promises what it cannot deliver – and delivers exactly the opposite of what it promised. Some of the most miserable people are those who are highly successful in the eyes of the world. But down inside, they are restless and spiritually empty.

We are not called to fall into the world’s trap, following its self-indulgent goals and driven by its self-centered motives. It can happen without even being aware of it. Our job in life is not to be successful, but to be faithful. Regardless of our cleverness, our achievements, and our gadgets and devices, we are spiritual paupers without God. When we make it a point to put Christ first in life, with the Lord’s help, we will know true contentment.

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(This column is based on the words and writings of the late Rev. Billy Graham.)